Pleasuring the Penis

Penises come in different sizes, angles, colours, smells and tastes. This virtual workshop is open to all genders and sexual orientations. This includes penis-owners who may benefit from learning and understanding more about their own anatomy, and those who want to pleasure penis owners. Let’s demystify this often misunderstood part of sexual anatomy, and get all your questions answered.

‘Pleasuring the Penis’ is based on the tantric penis massage techniques developed by Dr Joseph Kramer who created the Sexological Bodywork certification. As a trained sexological bodyworker, Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee has been teaching these techniques for the past 12 years. As a facilitator she has a direct, straight-talking, and witty facilitation style. Prepare for sometimes irreverent jokes, personal anecdotes, and plenty of fun!

Dr Martha will cover the following topics: penile anatomy, warming up and playing with the cock with your hands, penis massage techniques, how to experiment with speed / pressure / rhythm, lubes, safer sex, and more.

These are the same techniques taught to clients who have premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile difficulties (not due to a physical nature). They are, therefore, therapeutic techniques often taught and used in tantra and somatic bodywork.

This series of virtual workshops will be open to all genders.

You will Learn:

  • Penis anatomy – including the location of the elusive G spot
  • More than 20 penile massage techniques – frenulum, shaft, testicles etc
  • Types of lubricants to incorporate into your sex play
  • The role and importance of breathing for orgasmic experiences
  • How to experiment with speed, pressure, and rhythm
  • How to achieve long-lasting ecstasy
  • What an energy orgasm is

You might well save yourself years of heartache, confusion, and sexual anxieties due to lack of understanding about sexual functioning. All your emotions, questions, and laughter are welcome!

Core Benefits for Participants:

  • Increased sexual knowledge, confidence, and performance
  • Letting go of the sexual shame around nudity and genital touch
  • Understand the link between genital massage and common sexual challenges penis owners face – for instance, genital massage can increase skills around erection and ejaculation
  • Increased confidence and creativity with penis play / massage


What Others Are Saying

“Martha’s workshop is informative, enlightening and most importantly, fun! We had the chance to learn different skills to please our loved ones, to improve our intimate relationship. After the workshop, you may know the male body and its pleasuring system better than your partner! Useful, practical and eye-opening! – Echo He, 20 Aug 2019

“This is a good workshop to learn different and creative techniques because it is very hard to find sexual education in Asia and Singapore. Most of the time we just know pieces of information and guess by ourselves.” – Frederick, Aug 2017

“11 pages of techniques on the penis. So Many things to try with my girl!” – Alwin, Aug 2017

“Martha is one of the world’s renowned sexologist with a practical approach to the actual techniques. She is adept in bringing these techniques in a way that is reachable to the audience. Great learning experience from the industry’s leading sexologist and sex techniques scholar.” – Shiva, March 2017

“Been subtly trying some of the creative sexy techniques you taught. Hubby didn’t ask about it but it definitely worked! I had the best sex of my life last night. Thank you!! Highly recommending this course to all my married friends!! (But secretly, of course).” – Anonymous, 21 Dec 2015

“Just wanted to give you an update my ‘progress’. My boyfriend thinks i’m amazing in bed, hahaha. He really loves my blowjobs, and i’ve incorporate parts of the massage video into a handjob. Let’s just say he’s very satisfied ? Thanks for the skills! It really helped in my confidence ‘cos i was quite green at the whole thing. If you have other interesting courses, do keep me in the loop. Wanna make sure he continues to be surprised and a happy man.” – Anonymous, May 2010

Read more testimonials here, and here.

Your Instructor


Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Dr. Martha Tara Lee

A born and bred Singaporean Chinese, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She has a Doctorate in Human Sexuality, Masters in Counselling and two other degrees. In practice since 2009, Dr. Lee is Clinical Sexologist of Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the author of Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013), Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019).


Course Curriculum


  Pleasuring the Penis Program
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Frequently Asked Questions


When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.

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